Zachary Zane is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto and editor-in-chief of the BOYSLUT Zine, which publishes nonfiction erotica from kinksters across the globe. He writes “Sexplain It,” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health, and is the co-author of Men’s Health Best. Sex. Ever. His work has been featured in New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Playboy, and more.
Here’s What Makes the Eiffel Tower Threesome Position So Damn Hot
By Zachary Zane Published: Feb 9, 2021
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Most sex positions are designed for two people, but what about when two become three? Standard missionary position won’t work. Even classics like reverse cowgirl and doggystyle won’t do. You need specific threesomes positions where everyone’s getting in on the action in a satisfying way.
Enter the Eiffel Tower, arguably the most infamous threesome position of all time. The idea is that two partners penetrate a third partner who’s between them on all fours. (One partner is having intercourse; the other is receiving oral sex.) Then. wait for it. the penetrating partners high-five, thus making their bodies look very vaguely like the famous Parisian landmark.
Now, the Eiffel Tower gets a bit of a bad rap. it seems like a sex position that frat bros aspire to have, without giving any thought to the pleasure of the third person involved. (Don’t be like those guys. Those guys suck.) The Eiffel Tower can and should be a fun position where all people involved are having a blast.
“This position includes fun, novelty, psychological titillation, and hopefully the memory of a peak sexual experience,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT, sex therapist, and author of She Comes First.
With Kerner’s help, we broke down everything there is to know about the Eiffel Tower sex position, including how to do it, why it’s appealing, and position variations. Here’s to your one-way ticket to Paris. Bon voyage!
Here’s how to do the Eiffel Tower.
Getting into the position is pretty simple—it doesn’t require any superhuman flexibility or muscle strength. The receiving partner gets down on all fours. Next, one partner penetrates them from behind, while the other partner receives oral sex from the person in the middle. Finally. the high five.
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How does the Eiffel Tower differ from a spit-roast?
The hand-to-hand contact at the top of the position is what gives the Eiffel Tower its name. In the spit-roast position—where the person in the middle is “skewered,” so to speak—there is no hand-touching. But don’t get bogged down as to whether you’re technically in the Eiffel Tower position or spit-roast position. Unless you’re really into mid-sex high-fives, the distinction won’t matter at all.
What’s so good about the Eiffel Tower position?
This threesome configuration can be hot for everyone involved. The partners on either end are getting plenty of genital attention—but that’s just the beginning of the appeal.
“It also provides a sense of domination as well as a lot of visual stimulation,” Kerner says. “They can look down and see a person being penetrated at both ends or look at each other and enjoy the mirroring of each other’s pleasure.” There’s even a sense of camaraderie in the Eiffel Tower position; you and your best bud are dominating this person together—you’re sharing the sexual experience.
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For the person in the middle, there’s an element of submission that can be very arousing. “Submitting is hot because it’s a chance to relinquish power, surrender to pleasure, and enjoy the fantasy of being sexually objectified,” Kerner says.
There’s also a feeling of sexual accomplishment. You’re taking two penises at the same time; you are a goddamn sex god! Not everyone can give a great blowjob while getting plowed, but you can. Not to mention that penetration can feel damn good, regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, or genitals. And if you’re someone who loves giving head, then this is just a win-win.
Finishing the act might be the best part of all. Think about when you’re having sex, and you get into a rhythm that puts you in a sexual flow state that culminates in simultaneous orgasm. Now imagine entering that flow state with not just one partner, but two, and there being three simultaneous orgasms. “Erecting the tower is fun, but not as fun as when it collapses in a collective climax,” Kerner says.
Are there any cons to the Eiffel Tower position?
If partners are of vastly different heights, it can be tricky to make everything line up. (A pillow or sex wedge could help you out, if you’re struggling.) It can also be uncomfortable for the person in the middle, especially if they’re not used to being on their knees.
What are some variations to the Eiffel Tower position?
“See what happens when the person in the middle flips over on the back, which may require the partners on the end to get on all fours,” Kerner says. At this point, it’s no longer the Eiffel Tower position, but who cares? The point here is getting the most pleasure possible and having a fun time with your two partners.
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Don’t worry about getting the form exactly right, Kerner explains. “Maybe the partner in the middle needs to be flat on their stomach and up on their elbows, or the person doing the penetrating might need to stand off the bed,” he adds. There’s likely going to be a lot of fine-tuning that needs to be done, and form shouldn’t take precedence over pleasure.
And while the two sides of the tower can look at each other, it’s also important not to lose eye contact with the person in the middle to make sure they’re safe and satisfied. “As always, consent, caring, communication, and some caution (the 4Cs) are always paramount,” Kerner says.
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Zachary Zane is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto and editor-in-chief of the BOYSLUT Zine, which publishes nonfiction erotica from kinksters across the globe. He writes “Sexplain It,” the sex and relationship advice column at Men’s Health, and is the co-author of Men’s Health Best. Sex. Ever. His work has been featured in New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Playboy, and more.
10 Different Ways To Do It ‘Doggy Style’ — From Bulldog To Basset Hound
Being properly introduced to sex means being properly introduced into doggy style. For lots of people who enjoy sex, this position is the end all be all of sex positions because it hits the spot. Every. Single. Time.
Straying into doggy style, animal-wild sex is a must-have experience for you to enjoy, and once you do, you won’t be able to look back. Doggy style is the position where hair can be pulled, sex toys can be used, and you can feel your guy literally balls deep in you.
And I’m not pulling all of this out of my ass, either.
A study conducted by Ask Men found that doggy style was the most universally enjoyable sex position when they set out to see what the favorite sex position was on a state-by-state basis. And, according to Thrillist, it may have something to do with the way it hits the g-spot.
Doggy style is the Miss America of sex positions. But because it’s so frequently used, there can still be a desire to switch things up every now and then.
There’s a good chance you may be wondering just how the hell you can possibly switch up this particular sex position, but trust me when I say there are many ways.
Since it’s true what they say: “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,” we won’t. We’ll just slightly modify the original for all the pleasure and even more fun.
We dug through a couple hundred or two from sites like Sexpositions.com to bring you a top-notch batch of options, including the traditional standby.
And you know what? We found nine other ways to get it from behind that will drive you insane.
These different ways to do the doggy-style sex position offer the same pleasurable sensation but may be even better for you and your partner. What’s important is that you find what works for you.
Here are 10 types of doggy style position variations that will leave you begging for more.
1. Traditional Doggy Style Sex Position
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The original doggy-style is still a good position, and although I’m sure you’re aware of how this one is done. I will still explain to you so that you can see how it differs from some of the other doggy styles.
The bottom is on all fours on the bed and your partner is positioned on both knees while grabbing your hips (or not, if he prefers Superman doggy-style) to thrust into you as deeply or as shallow as you both desire.
To make throwing it back easier, grab onto a pillow or your headboard if there’s a railing.
2. Bulldog Doggy Style Sex Position
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For the Bulldog, the woman remains in the same position as doggy-style, however, your partner will crouch over (literally) the top of you while hugging your hips with his knees and leveraging his hands on the bed or floor (probably preferable for balance).
3. Leapfrog Doggy Style Sex Position
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In the Leapfrog position, your partner will stand behind you and you will stand in front of them, pull your feet in a little closer (about a shoulder-width apart), and bend over, positioning your hands on the ground (knees touching your elbows).
When you bend, let your elbows bend a little as well, as if you’re about to leap and allow your partner to take you.
4. Eiffel Tower Doggy Style Sex Position
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This one, the Eiffel Tower, is a little more straightforward. Your partner stands behind you with his legs straddling yours, and you bend over, holding yourself up with your elbows.
5. Downward Dog Sex Position
If you’re looking for something a little rougher, the Downward Dog may be just what you need.
You and your guy will take the form of the original doggy style, but instead of you leaning in on your arms, you will lay your arms by your sides — or your partner could even cuff them behind you for some added fun.
6. Prison Guard Doggy Style Sex Position
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When you’re in this position, you’ll both stand with your feet shoulder-width apart, and while you bend over, your partner will take your arms, slightly pulling them back as if they were stretching you.
That there is how you execute the Prison Guard.
7. Basset Hound Doggy Style Sex Position
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Both partners will take the regular doggy style position in the Basset Hound, but instead of keeping them open, bring your knees together while your partner hugs your knees with theirs and grabs your hips.
8. Flatiron Sex Position
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Similar to the Downward Dog position, where you will drop to your chest without using your hands, in the Flat Iron, you will put your butt in the air slightly, leaving enough room for you to reach your vagina for a little-added stimulation.
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